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Thursday, June 07, 2007

He spent full days in the bigger kid’s room at childcare on Monday and Tuesday. They said he is doing well and that the big kids wanted to help him. He has been quieter than usual there. His swimming teacher commented that perhaps his clinginess at swimming relates to his change of room at childcare. This could be why he has been clingier at home and at his activities in the past week. From next week he will be fulltime in the bigger kid’s room, so we are hopeful he soon becomes comfortable there.

He has a lingering cough and cold, so that could also be the reason for his clinginess. Hopefully a quiet long weekend ahead will help shake that.

Summary of Jack at 23 months

. Jack can now sing most words of 'twinkle twinkle little star', 'baa baa black sheep' and the alphabet song by himself.

. Jack can confidently climb across the ladder in the air at Gymbaroo (holding onto the side rails for support). He is really enjoying all the climbing activities at Gymbaroo at the moment.

. Jack is showing interest in jumping. So far he only lifts his heels up and down. He also likes walking on his tip toes, and talks about hopping.

. After such a long issue with shoes, Jack is now confidently walking around in his 'inside' shoes (slippers) and his 'outside' proper shoes. You would never know he once had a problem with them. He is also enjoying putting on his alligator and dog shoes on at home, and putting shoes on his teddy bears and getting them to walk in them.

. Jack has learnt to turn his music on and off on the CD player. The main problem is that he wants to do it over and over again. When we firmly tell him to stop, he sometimes gets his different bears to turn it on and off instead.

. Jack loves helping us with chores. He loves helping me with loading and unloading the dishwasher, and helping his Dad with the washing, and watering the garden.

. Jack's cot is now converted into a cot bed. He is able to climb out of it, but is often disoriented when first waking, and gets tangled up in his bed sheets. As such he still cries for us to come and help him. He still very much prefers to sleep attached to his mum, and will not willingly go into the cot bed himself (only gets transferred in once asleep). I have managed to get him to sleep in it for longer periods by kneeling down beside him when he wakes, putting my arms around him, and letting him hold my hair. He can sometimes get himself back to sleep. I can however be left kneeling there for 20 minutes or so before he finally releases the grip on my hair and allows me to move away!

. As above, Jack will fully be in the 'duck' room at his Mon/Tues childcare, and no longer in the youngest room. It is a reminder that he is growing up and certainly not a baby anymore. Although he seems to be outwardly handling it ok, he has been more quiet and clingy while going through the transition.

. Jack is enjoying playing with play dough at home. He has also had the opportunity to start more craft work in the childcare 'duck' room.

. Jack has been trying to bite a bit of late, and bit me hard on the cheek yesterday with a cheeky grin. This is certainly behaviour I will be trying to stamp out very quickly.

Posted by Al at 3:23 PM

Sunday, June 10, 2007

On Friday Jack took a tumble from a walking beam at Gymbaroo. Al caught him before he came right off, but he struck his cheek on one of the beams. An angry swollen red welt came up over the next few minutes, and by the end of the day Jack also had a black eye.

On Saturday morning Jack had another haircut – and while a couple hairdressers and a customer interacted with Jack, none mentioned the very obvious black eye. A friend of Al's visited on Saturday afternoon – and she didn’t mention the black eye. Today we were at a Chemist, and asked after a red mark under Jack’s other eye. She also did not mention the black eye.

We have left openings in our conversations for people to ask about it, but everyone has pointedly chosen to ignore it. I mentioned previously how people gave me accusing looks when I was carrying a crying Jack. It seems odd, but the “I am pretending that I haven’t noticed” look is even worse.

Posted by Doug at 9:30 PM

Tuesday, June 26, 2007

Been a little while since my last entry - a combination of being busy with work stress, and being tired and busy at home. Two weeks ago we enjoyed a lovely dinner out with friends, while Grandma Q minded Jack. Jack had another visit to a play centre with Damon, Dominic and Isabel last Friday. Damon is showing interest in acting like a 'big brother' to Jack. He played ball and went on some bouncing activities with him. Much to my surprise Jack allowed Damon to hold his hand and lead him around. He also laughed excitedly when Damon through a ball up high into the air. It is lovely to see this bond developing.

In stark contrast to this we attended Liana's 2nd birthday party on the weekend. Doug got to see the full extent of Jack's reaction to other kids when I am around. Jack was clingy and wanted me beside him at all times, and got upset any time another kid came near, especially if they snatched toys from him. It wasn't a very relaxing party for me as a result.

When Doug picked Jack up from childcare yesterday he noticed Jack was in amongst all the kids, and threw a ball to one of them. Doug questioned the careers again about how Jack is really like around the other kids. They reiterated that he is mostly fine. They said if too many big kids are grouped together Jack will sometimes get scared and run away (which was a little sad for us to hear), but otherwise he interacts and is ok. So it would seem that the problem is exasperated when I am around. He sees me as his security blanket, and over-reacts to other kids - expecting me to intervene and protect him at all times. It is a difficult situation for me to be in.

Jack's latest development is being able to walk with assistance downstairs. He is excited by this achievement and wants to do it over and over, and asks us to give him a 'big clap' each time he makes it all the way to the bottom. He is also tall enough on tiptoes to sometimes reach the light switches - which he excitedly turns on and off (then throws a tantrum when we ask him to stop). He is also getting more consistent at being able to open and shut all the doors in the house.

Jack continues to be clingy, whingy and prone to lots of tantrums. We hope the final round of teething is underway to explain this behaviour (and to finally have the teething behind us). We fear it is actually the onset of the 'terrible 2s'. All the other kids in his playgroup have also increased their tantrums and bad behaviour of late, so it would seem they are all going through this phase. We can only hope it is a short phase, and doesn't get even worse.

Posted by Al at 11:42 PM

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